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The Moment You Decide

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Ernest Ebanks

Is there something in your life you’re ready to change — right now?

Most people believe change takes months. Years. Endless cycles of starting over on Mondays. We’ve been conditioned to think transformation is slow, painful, and filled with failure before success.

But what if real change doesn’t take months?

What if it takes a moment?

Look at how many people struggle with their weight. They talk about getting in shape. They plan. They research. They “prepare.” Yet the change never seems to stick.

Why?

Because change doesn’t happen when you’re thinking about it. It happens when you decide.

The preparation can take time. The hesitation can take time. The excuses can take time. But the shift — the internal line in the sand — happens in an instant.

Maybe you want to lose weight.

Maybe your blood pressure is creeping up.

Maybe you’re tired of avoiding mirrors or squeezing into clothes that don’t fit.

What’s really stopping you?

Lasting change is built on three powerful decisions:

1. Something Has to Change

Not “it would be nice if…”

Not “maybe someday…”

But this cannot continue.

There’s a difference between casually wanting to get in shape and being unwilling to live another year feeling uncomfortable in your own body.

When the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the discomfort of changing, that’s when transformation begins.

2. I Am Responsible for the Change

Support helps. Coaching helps. Guidance helps.

But no one can want it more than you.

No one can train for you.

No one can choose your meals for you.

No one can move your body for you.

The moment you stop blaming time, genetics, stress, or circumstances — and fully own the outcome — you take your power back.

And power creates progress.

3. I Am Capable of Change

Past attempts don’t define you.

They prepared you.

Every setback taught you something. Every restart proved you still care. You have succeeded in other areas of your life because you committed. Fitness is no different.

When you truly believe you can change, your behavior follows.

So why do most people fail?

Because they rely on willpower.

Willpower is temporary. It fades when you’re tired, stressed, or emotional. Eventually, you drift back to what feels comfortable.

If you want lasting change, you don’t rely on willpower — you change what feels comfortable.

Human behavior is driven by two forces:

• Avoid pain

• Seek pleasure

Right now, your brain may associate pleasure with late-night comfort food and pain with exercise. That wiring determines your habits.

But wiring can be rewired.

Start connecting discomfort to the behaviors holding you back. Visualize the long-term consequences of staying stuck—low energy, health risks, frustration, missed confidence.

Then connect pleasure to the behaviors that move you forward. Strength. Energy. Confidence. Pride. Better health. Clothes that fit the way you want.

When exercise becomes your stress relief…

When healthy food becomes your fuel…

When discipline becomes your identity…

Change stops feeling hard.

It starts feeling right.

You are capable of making a powerful shift in your life. And it doesn’t require waiting for the perfect time. It requires a decision.

If you’re ready to draw the line and step into a stronger, healthier version of yourself, reach out to Ernest at Body Shapers Personal Training Fitness Studio at 325-8696 for a no-obligation fitness consultation.

The moment you decide is the moment everything begins.

Change doesn’t take years.

It takes a decision.


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